Category is: Identity

Tarot

Six tarot cards for summer solstice

Heatwave-melted and pre-menstrual, plans for a collective solstice ritual with pals sent sideways by illness, I piled cushions on the floor, curled up with Cosmo and pulled six tarot cards (and then some bonus ones) for the six months between this solstice and next…

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Dear Damsels anthology So Long As You Write, open to the first page of Jane's essay

F🤬ck (your) demons + find community

On finding and trusting my voice, coming out, being scared, being safe and being heard…

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Draw me like one of your French girls

On life drawing, learning to love my body and getting naked in my mate’s basement

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Robin Guy playing drums

NEVER EVER GIVE UP: In loving memory of Robin Guy

I’m heartbroken to be writing this. But I can’t not pay tribute to one of my favourite musicians of all time. At the end of last week, it was announced that Robin Guy had passed away, and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him since.

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The queer alchemy of queer and trans health and healing

There’s a current of queerness running through the definition of alchemy: 1. a power or process that changes or transforms something in a mysterious or impressive way; 2. an inexplicable or mysterious transmuting. Queer and trans people are alchemists. We are mysterious, impressive, inexplicable and powerful. We are skilled in the art of transformation. – Zena Sharman, Queer Alchemy: Perverting the Health System, Fighting to Win

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Smiley backpack

Found in drafts: I’ve got baggage (but I’m keeping it close)

On being scared, coping through preparedness and going to bed with my shoes on…

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Three magickal anthologies about witchcraft

Samhain is upon us once again, so I’m sharing three of my favourite essay collections about witchcraft and magick…

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Posing with my grandad and a donkey

Everything is getting dark

…and I keep dreaming about my dead relatives

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